Good people, I’m just like the next person. I don’t really have time to merge my online life with my "real" life. I’m got too many responsibilities. Maybe that will change after while, but I can’t see that happening right now.
Anyway, my point is PLEASE do NOT ask me to join your network or be friends if you haven’t taken the time to at least fill out your name and location in your Live details. I have no idea what your baby-mama or thuggish nickname means.
Nothing personal, and I’m sure you’re a great person, but really: how many people do you fully embrace if they walk up to you off the street and just say, "Let’s be best friends forever!"?